The California Divorce Survival Guide
The California Divorce Survival Guide is a practical, steady resource designed for individuals navigating divorce in California. Written by Carolyn A. Martino, Chair of SBEMP’s Family Law Department, the guide breaks down the legal, financial, and emotional realities of divorce into clear, actionable guidance. It walks readers through the process from filing to final judgment, offers strategies for managing high-conflict situations and protecting one’s reputation, and places special emphasis on emotional well-being, thoughtful decision-making, and focusing on a stable future. The guide also includes a comprehensive chapter on financial preparation, with a detailed budgeting worksheet, as well as dedicated sections on LGBTQ+ divorce and the unique challenges of gray divorce after age fifty. It is designed to help individuals move forward with clarity, confidence, and control.